It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of James Matthew Failor, a cherished resident of Shelbina, Missouri, who left this world peacefully on January 7, 2026. At the age of 52, his gentle departure has created an irreplaceable void in the lives of his family, friends, and community of this small northeast Missouri town.
Born on February 1, 1973, in Quincy, Illinois, James grew up with roots in the heartland that shaped his grounded and approachable character. His journey from the nearby Illinois border to establishing a home in Shelbina reflected a commitment to family and community, embracing the rhythms of rural Missouri life with quiet resilience.
James found profound happiness in life’s uncomplicated pleasures, particularly his passionate support for the St. Louis Blues, where game days became opportunities for excitement and camaraderie. He delighted in fishing, casting lines in local waters as a way to unwind and appreciate the serenity of nature, often turning these outings into cherished memories with loved ones.
Family stood as the unwavering center of James’s existence, with his role as a father providing the deepest sense of purpose and pride. He poured guidance, encouragement, and unconditional love into his son, Coty, and step-daughter, Amanda, nurturing bonds that exemplified his nurturing spirit. His longtime girlfriend, Charlene, shared in the daily warmth of companionship, while his mother, Diane, remained a pillar of strength, mourning the loss of a son who offered comfort and reliability in return.
James is survived by his son Coty, step-daughter Amanda, mother Diane, and longtime girlfriend Charlene, all of whom will carry forward the legacy of his affectionate presence and steadfast support. The depth of their grief speaks to the profound impact he had as a source of laughter and stability, fostering relationships built on trust and shared happiness. In Shelbina, his memory will endure through the stories of kindness and devotion that he wove into the fabric of those around him.
Though his time was cut short, James Matthew Failor’s life stands as a tribute to one well lived with love, laughter, and an enduring commitment to the people and passions that mattered most. His ability to find and share joy in simple moments leaves behind an inspiring example of heartfelt living, ensuring his spirit continues to bring comfort to family and friends. In this season of sorrow, the community holds his loved ones close, celebrating a man whose generous heart illuminated so many paths.