Tony Finlay passed away suddenly on January 5, 2026, in Willingham, England. Known to many as Tog, or Sergeant Anthony Finlay during his service days, he was 67. His passing came as a shock, but those close to him find some comfort knowing he was surrounded by loved ones in his final moments. Tony lived with a kind heart that showed in everything he did, always ready to lift others even when life tested him.
He served proudly in the 9th/12th Royal Lancers from 1974 to 1993, rising to sergeant. The military shaped him deeply. He carried that discipline and camaraderie long after leaving the forces. Friends from his regiment remember him fondly, noting how he had gone to his “final RV”—a quiet nod to the rendezvous points soldiers know so well. Tony stayed connected to that world, embodying the support and resilience veterans often share with each other.
Health challenges marked parts of his later years, but Tony faced them with unwavering spirit. He kept caring for the people around him, offering encouragement and strength when others needed it most. That generosity touched his community in Willingham, where he built a warm home and lasting friendships.
Family anchored everything for Tony. He was a cherished husband to Mary, sharing decades of love and everyday joys. As dad to Niamh and Joe, he poured pride and guidance into their lives. Being a grandfather brought him special happiness too, with a growing circle of little ones who felt his gentle warmth. He believed in living authentically, building real connections, and standing by your people.
The community felt his commitment quietly but deeply. His legacy ties to supporting causes that help the vulnerable—children through charities like Barnardo’s, and those facing serious illness via Arthur Rank Hospice. It reflects the man he was: someone who gave back, even through tough times.
Friends and family will gather to honor him at Huntingdon Crematorium on Thursday, February 12, 2026, at noon. It’s a chance to share stories, celebrate his authenticity, and remember the uplift he brought to so many. Family flowers only, with donations welcomed to those charities in his name. Tony’s kindness, his resilience, and his love for veterans and community will keep shining in everyone he left behind.