Stephanie Stacey Whitnel, a 31-year-old resident of Paducah, Kentucky, was fatally shot in a targeted domestic violence incident at KC’s Bar and Grill on December 13, 2025. The shooting occurred around 3:14 a.m. in the 3500 block of Park Plaza Drive. Whitnel, a beloved bartender and mother of three children, succumbed to multiple gunshot wounds after being transported to a local hospital.
Paducah Police Department officers responded to reports of gunfire inside the nightclub. Witnesses described the suspect, 38-year-old Phillip S. Whitnel, entering the establishment and shooting the victim several times before fleeing the scene. Authorities confirmed the two had been in a previous relationship, classifying the homicide as domestic violence related.
Phillip Whitnel fled toward Illinois following the attack. Paducah detectives coordinated with Illinois State Police, who located and arrested him during a traffic stop in Franklin County. He faces charges of murder with domestic violence and is held pending extradition to Kentucky.
Whitnel worked as a bartender at KC’s Bar and Grill, where her bright presence and resilience left a lasting impression on colleagues and patrons. She previously served at Outback Steakhouse, forming strong friendships through her reliable and supportive nature. Her role as a devoted mother defined much of her life, bringing joy to her children.
The Paducah community mourns the loss of this vibrant individual whose warmth touched many lives. A GoFundMe fundraiser has been established to support her three children, reflecting widespread admiration for her loving spirit. No other individuals were physically harmed in the incident.
Stephanie Stacey Whitnel lived a life well lived, marked by dedication to her family, professional commitment in hospitality, and a joyful presence that uplifted those around her. Her legacy of love and resilience endures in the memories of her children, friends, and the Paducah area. The investigation continues as authorities seek justice in this tragic case.